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Dr. Vicki Belo shares love secrets for lasting relationships

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<p>In a video uploaded by Dr. Vicki Belo on her Instagram on July 19, the renowned beauty expert shared her advice for maintaining lasting relationships.</p><p>Responding to a question about the length of her relationship with husband Hayden Kho, Vicki revealed that they have been together for 19 years. She was then asked how they are able to still keep the spark alive, especially given their busy, jet-setting lives.</p><iframe class="instagram-media" id="instagram-embed-0" src="https://www.instagram.com/reel/C9mhpsiyhfB/embed/?cr=1&amp;v=14&amp;wp=450&amp;rd=https%3A%2F%2Fent-workbench-web.abs-cbn.com&amp;rp=%2F#%7B%22ci%22%3A0%2C%22os%22%3A243503%2C%22ls%22%3A243161%2C%22le%22%3A243168%7D" allowtransparency="true" allowfullscreen="" frameBorder="0" height="0" data-instgrm-payload-id="instagram-media-payload-0" scrolling="no" style="background:white;max-width:540px;width:calc(100% - 2px);border-radius:3px;border:1px solid rgb(219, 219, 219);box-shadow:none;display:block;margin:0px;min-width:326px;padding:0px;position:absolute"></iframe><blockquote class=" instagram-media-registered" data-instgrm-permalink="https://www.instagram.com/reel/C9mhpsiyhfB/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" data-instgrm-version="14" id="instagram-media-payload-0" style="background:#FFF;border:0;border-radius:3px;box-shadow:0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15);margin:1px;max-width:540px;min-width:326px;padding:0;width:calc(100% - 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It’s good to let your partner experience different kinds of emotions. Wag naman yung sobrang dramatic masyado, but it cannot be always [nonchalant].”</p><p>Vicki noted that even minor disagreements can add excitement to the relationship.</p><p>“So sometimes may konting tampo, para may konting makeup, oh diba, mas exciting yun,” she said.</p><p>She also advocates for surprising one’s partner.</p><p>“Sometimes you surprise him for no reason at all, you give him a gift, you give him a kiss, or I don’t know what other gifts you can give him,” she explained. “It doesn’t have to be material.”</p><p>Vicki also highlighted the role of their daughter, Scarlet, in strengthening their bond. Going through parenthood together added another dimension to their relationship as a couple.</p><p>“I think also of course Scarlet is such a great bond for us, and Scarlet is wonderful because she keeps us bonded together,” she mused.</p><iframe class="instagram-media" id="instagram-embed-1" src="https://www.instagram.com/reel/C8mApVYtQYV/embed/?cr=1&amp;v=14&amp;wp=450&amp;rd=https%3A%2F%2Fent-workbench-web.abs-cbn.com&amp;rp=%2F#%7B%22ci%22%3A1%2C%22os%22%3A243519%2C%22ls%22%3A243161%2C%22le%22%3A243168%7D" allowtransparency="true" allowfullscreen="" frameBorder="0" height="0" data-instgrm-payload-id="instagram-media-payload-1" scrolling="no" style="background:white;max-width:540px;width:calc(100% - 2px);border-radius:3px;border:1px solid rgb(219, 219, 219);box-shadow:none;display:block;margin:0px;min-width:326px;padding:0px;position:absolute"></iframe><blockquote class=" instagram-media-registered" data-instgrm-permalink="https://www.instagram.com/reel/C8mApVYtQYV/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" data-instgrm-version="14" id="instagram-media-payload-1" style="background:#FFF;border:0;border-radius:3px;box-shadow:0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15);margin:1px;max-width:540px;min-width:326px;padding:0;width:calc(100% - 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Or no? Without your faith ren diba mahirap on harder days.”</p><p>Vicki affirmed that their faith plays a crucial role in keeping them grounded and together.</p><p>“Yes, we are Christian. And do believe that with Jesus as the center of our lives, we stay faithful in each other and the Lord! 🙏🩷”</p><p>Dr. Vicki Belo and Hayden have been a couple since 2005. They first tied the knot in a civil ceremony in June 2017, followed by a grand, star-studded wedding in Paris in September of the same year.</p><p>In March 2015, the couple welcomed their daughter, Scarlet Snow, through an IVF surrogate. Vicki’s advice and personal experiences highlight the importance of communication, spontaneity, and faith in sustaining a loving and enduring relationship.</p><div><br/></div><p>— By Samantha Prats</p>

<p>Dr. Vicki Belo discusses the importance of communication, spontaneity, and faith in her 19-year relationship with husband Hayden Kho.</p>

Dr. Vicki Belo discusses the importance of communication, spontaneity, and faith in her 19-year relationship with husband Hayden Kho.