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JoshLia happily gives out advice on the “How Tos of Love” in this fun challenge

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Mary Ann Bardinas

Their real-life romantic relationship may be long over, and they’ve been navigating life and showbiz in separate ways, but Julia Barretto and Joshua Garcia, collectively known as “JoshLia,” are back to bring kilig, joy, tears, and heartbreak to everyone through their latest movie together, “<a href="https://ent.abs-cbn.com/articles-news/joshua-and-julias-unhappy-for-you-earns-p205m-on-first-day-23056" target="_blank">Un/Happy For You</a>.” Whether you’ve already seen it or not yet, JoshLia is here to further deliver kilig and nuggets of wisdom as they impart pieces of advice on five of the common relationship discussions that we encounter, as well as take us back on a few of their memorable moments as sweethearts before, as they gamely took on the “How Tos of Love” Challenge in this<a href="https://ent.abs-cbn.com" target="_blank"> ent.abs-cbn.com</a> exclusive video.In this game, they only had to speak their minds (or even hearts) in each of the situations given to them. Even though both of them already had experiences in love, Julia commenced the segment with a disclaimer, saying that they are not experts and are just trying their best, which Joshua seconded by telling the viewers that this is definitely just for fun. There’s a song that says, “Sorry seems to be the hardest word,” which seems to speak true to some people. But JoshLia had some sound advice on how to say sorry after a fight. For Joshua, we should first mull over the reason why we have to do it, as well as our resolution to the problem, before apologizing. Because he believes that in that way, we will be able to completely set forth everything that we want to express. Meanwhile, Julia conveyed that it’s necessary to acknowledge the mistake you committed and the pain the other person felt because of it. She also reminded that we must be sincere once we do it, since, for her, the best apology is when you really mean it. One of the things that many of us struggle to do is surprise our loved ones on special occasions. Thus, Julia told guys out there to do their best not to be caught since there are people whose instincts are so keen. When Joshua asked if he was good at surprising her before, she affirmed it by recalling an instance when he surprised her with a romantic Valentine’s date at her house. Joshua, on the other hand, advised that it’s important to know first what your partner likes, particularly the little things they probably didn’t expect you to notice, because they will certainly appreciate it. Just like when he hired a group of kids to serenade Julia as his way of proposing to her to be his date in an edition of the ABS-CBN Ball, after he remembered her mentioning how much she likes kids.With regard to their way of showing trust to their special someone, the Kapamilya actor said that it’s important for him that his partner updates him whenever they’re not together, as well as to be just confident that they will not do anything wrong while you’re away. In addition, we must also respect the privacy of our lover by not checking their phone, to which Julia agreed since it’s part of anyone’s personal space. She also added that we must refrain from constantly questioning their faithfulness, to the point that we will get frustrated due to extreme overthinking. Not only can it hurt our partner, but can also be toxic and exhausting in the long run. We all know that aside from buying gifts for our special someone, there are definitely other ways of showing our love for them. For Julia, it’s going to be words of affirmation because she likes being told. Joshua apparently shares the same love language as her, and added that it’s also important to have time for your partner to go out together or talk with each other.And lastly, when it comes to how to tell your significant other that you’re jealous, Joshua admitted that he has always been straightforward, which astonished Julia. He confirmed that he’s no longer the jealous type, unlike before, as he now fills himself with trust towards his current partner and has realized the negative impact of jealousy.Contrarily, Julia said that she doesn’t tell her current boyfriend that she is jealous, compared to how she used to be open with Joshua before. Thus, Joshua advised her that she has to let her partner know how she truly feels in order for him to establish a boundary with the person who causes her to feel that way. Julia clarified that it’s not entirely selos, but discomfort in the situation. JoshLia’s reunion movie, “Un/Happy For You,” is now showing in over 320 cinemas!

Get your dose of kilig from Joshua Garcia and Julia Barretto as they share sound advice about some of the “How Tos of Love.” 