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'Kung mahal mo, mag-sorry ka': Joshua-Julia reconciliation sparks debate

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<blockquote class="instagram-media" data-instgrm-permalink="https://www.instagram.com/p/BdUMcLElnEH/" data-instgrm-version="8" style="background:#FFF;border:0;border-radius:3px;box-shadow:0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15);margin:1px;max-width:658px;padding:0;width:calc(100% - 2px)"><div style="padding:8px"><div style="background:#F8F8F8;line-height:0;margin-top:40px;padding:33.33333333333333% 0;text-align:center;width:100%"><div style="background:url(data:image/png;base64,iVBORw0KGgoAAAANSUhEUgAAACwAAAAsCAMAAAApWqozAAAABGdBTUEAALGPC/xhBQAAAAFzUkdCAK7OHOkAAAAMUExURczMzPf399fX1+bm5mzY9AMAAADiSURBVDjLvZXbEsMgCES5/P8/t9FuRVCRmU73JWlzosgSIIZURCjo/ad+EQJJB4Hv8BFt+IDpQoCx1wjOSBFhh2XssxEIYn3ulI/6MNReE07UIWJEv8UEOWDS88LY97kqyTliJKKtuYBbruAyVh5wOHiXmpi5we58Ek028czwyuQdLKPG1Bkb4NnM+VeAnfHqn1k4+GPT6uGQcvu2h2OVuIf/gWUFyy8OWEpdyZSa3aVCqpVoVvzZZ2VTnn2wU8qzVjDDetO90GSy9mVLqtgYSy231MxrY6I2gGqjrTY0L8fxCxfCBbhWrsYYAAAAAElFTkSuQmCC);display:block;height:44px;margin:0 auto -44px;position:relative;top:-22px;width:44px"> </div></div><p style="color:#c9c8cd;font-family:Arial,sans-serif;font-size:14px;line-height:17px;margin-bottom:0;margin-top:8px;overflow:hidden;padding:8px 0 7px;text-align:center;text-overflow:ellipsis;white-space:nowrap"><a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/BdUMcLElnEH/" style="color:#c9c8cd;font-family:Arial,sans-serif;font-size:14px;font-style:normal;font-weight:normal;line-height:17px;text-decoration:none" target="_blank">A post shared by Joshua Garcia (@garciajoshuae)</a> on <time dateTime="2017-12-30T06:00:11+00:00" style="font-family:Arial,sans-serif;font-size:14px;line-height:17px">Dec 29, 2017 at 10:00pm PST</time></p></div></blockquote><div><script async="" defer="" src="https://www.instagram.com/embed.js" type="text/javascript"></script></div><p>The recent controversy surrounding the relationship of Joshua Garcia and Julia Barretto has triggered a debate online about fidelity and forgiveness.</p><ul class="op-related-articles">	<li><a href="https://news.abs-cbn.com/entertainment/04/11/18/crying-joshua-says-sorry-to-julia-over-viral-private-message-to-mystery-girl">Crying Joshua says sorry to Julia over viral private message to mystery girl</a></li></ul><p>Specifically, the debate was spurred by a post on a Facebook fan page dedicated to Garcia, showing the neophyte actor with Barretto after his televised tell-all. Its caption: &quot;Kung mahal mo, mag-sorry ka.&quot;</p><p>Since it was published Saturday, the post has gotten nearly 2,500 comments, 28,000 reactions, and nearly some 23,000 shares on Facebook.</p><div><script src="https://connect.facebook.net/en_US/sdk.js#xfbml=1&amp;version=v2.5" async="" type="text/javascript"></script></div><div class="fb-post" data-href="https://www.facebook.com/OfficialJoshuaGarcia/photos/a.108424162983955.1073741828.108415799651458/196526317507072/?type=3&amp;theater" data-width="auto"> </div><p>On Twitter, a screenshot of the post similarly went viral, with the tweet disagreeing with the original Facebook caption. &quot;Kung mahal mo, hindi ka gagawa ng isang bagay na magiging dahilan ng paghingi mo ng tawad,&quot; it read.</p><ul class="op-related-articles">	<li><a href="http://news.abs-cbn.com/entertainment/04/11/18/woman-in-the-middle-of-julia-joshua-rift-posts-josh-is-for-juls">Woman in the middle of Julia-Joshua rift posts: ‘Josh is for Juls’</a></li>	<li><a href="http://news.abs-cbn.com/entertainment/04/11/18/hindi-ako-nagpapatawa-teary-eyed-dennis-padilla-tells-joshua-garcia-after-confession">&#x27;Hindi ako nagpapatawa,&#x27; teary-eyed Dennis Padilla tells Joshua Garcia after confession</a></li></ul><p>Several comments agreed, pointing out that there wouldn&#x27;t be a need to say sorry in the first place, if there was no &quot;bad&quot; behavior that hurts your partner. Some specifically gave as an example Garcia&#x27;s private message to another woman, asserting that it was kept secret from Barretto until the woman posted the message online.</p><blockquote class="twitter-tweet" data-lang="en"><p dir="ltr" lang="tl">Kung mahal mo, hindi ka gagawa ng isang bagay na magiging dahilan ng pag hingi mo ng tawad. <a href="https://t.co/uPvzYqIL6X">pic.twitter.com/uPvzYqIL6X</a></p>— єммαη ☻ (@goodguyemman) <a href="https://twitter.com/goodguyemman/status/985127543287115778?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">April 14, 2018</a></blockquote><div><script async="" src="https://platform.twitter.com/widgets.js" charSet="utf-8" type="text/javascript"></script></div><blockquote class="twitter-tweet" data-conversation="none" data-lang="en"><p dir="ltr" lang="en">Unintentional mistakes are tolerable. It&#x27;s inevitable in every relationship. But what he did is considered cheating. By not considering what would Julia feel towards his action of DM&#x27;ing the girl is purely intentional. Given the fact that they are public figures.</p>— єммαη ☻ (@goodguyemman) <a href="https://twitter.com/goodguyemman/status/985509031048503296?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">April 15, 2018</a></blockquote><div><script async="" src="https://platform.twitter.com/widgets.js" charSet="utf-8" type="text/javascript"></script></div><div><iframe allow="encrypted-media" allowtransparency="true" frameBorder="0" height="141" scrolling="no" src="https://www.facebook.com/plugins/comment_embed.php?href=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2FOfficialJoshuaGarcia%2Fposts%2F196526340840403%3Fcomment_id%3D196589254167445&amp;include_parent=false" style="border:none;overflow:hidden" width="560"></iframe><iframe allow="encrypted-media" allowtransparency="true" frameBorder="0" height="201" scrolling="no" src="https://www.facebook.com/plugins/comment_embed.php?href=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2FOfficialJoshuaGarcia%2Fposts%2F196526340840403%3Fcomment_id%3D196598170833220&amp;include_parent=false" style="border:none;overflow:hidden" width="560"></iframe><iframe allow="encrypted-media" allowtransparency="true" frameBorder="0" height="161" scrolling="no" src="https://www.facebook.com/plugins/comment_embed.php?href=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2FOfficialJoshuaGarcia%2Fposts%2F196526340840403%3Fcomment_id%3D196599397499764&amp;include_parent=false" style="border:none;overflow:hidden" width="560"></iframe><iframe allow="encrypted-media" allowtransparency="true" frameBorder="0" height="181" scrolling="no" src="https://www.facebook.com/plugins/comment_embed.php?href=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2FOfficialJoshuaGarcia%2Fposts%2F196526340840403%3Fcomment_id%3D164497167581934&amp;include_parent=false" style="border:none;overflow:hidden" width="560"></iframe><iframe allow="encrypted-media" allowtransparency="true" frameBorder="0" height="161" scrolling="no" src="https://www.facebook.com/plugins/comment_embed.php?href=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2FOfficialJoshuaGarcia%2Fposts%2F196526340840403%3Fcomment_id%3D196645860828451&amp;include_parent=false" style="border:none;overflow:hidden" width="560"></iframe></div><p>On the other hand, many also argued that mistakes are inevitable in a relationship, and that they, in fact, make a couple&#x27;s bond stronger in some cases. Fans of Garcia also came to his defense, saying he was merely complimenting, not flirting, with the woman when he messaged her privately.</p><blockquote class="twitter-tweet" data-conversation="none" data-lang="en"><p dir="ltr" lang="tl">Ang lagay eh, pag nag mahal, bawal na magkamali? (Not in terms of cheating or lying cos thats totally a diff thing) part ng pag mamahalan ang magka sakitan in diff aspects. But to prove u really love the person, u have to do everything to work things out. You&#x27;ll stay.</p>— alexia (@ziamxxn) <a href="https://twitter.com/ziamxxn/status/985475737112133632?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">April 15, 2018</a></blockquote><div><script async="" src="https://platform.twitter.com/widgets.js" charSet="utf-8" type="text/javascript"></script></div><blockquote class="twitter-tweet" data-conversation="none" data-lang="en"><p dir="ltr" lang="tl">Di mo parin pwedeng maconclude na intentionally niyang ginawa yung kamalian na yun, kasi in the first place, pwedeng nagawa niya yun without thinking na mali pala yun. Kumbaga kung sa korte yan, wala pa ring conclusive evidence. Basta ang importante, naresolve nila.</p>— 카일사이슨 (@LemronNyeyms) <a href="https://twitter.com/LemronNyeyms/status/985552119364136961?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">April 15, 2018</a></blockquote><div><script async="" src="https://platform.twitter.com/widgets.js" charSet="utf-8" type="text/javascript"></script></div><blockquote class="twitter-tweet" data-conversation="none" data-lang="en"><p dir="ltr" lang="tl">Pero yong maganda don may tao parin MARUNONG HUMINGI NG TAWAD, at MARUNONG MAG PATAWAD. Wag na nga tayo mang himasok sa relasyon nila,kala nyo naman nakakatulong.Hanap din kayo ng lovelife nyo tignan natin kung hindi rin kayo magkaproblema jusme 🙄</p>— Bumangga-Giba 💪 (@micacams) <a href="https://twitter.com/micacams/status/985551697048031232?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">April 15, 2018</a></blockquote><div><script async="" src="https://platform.twitter.com/widgets.js" charSet="utf-8" type="text/javascript"></script></div><blockquote class="twitter-tweet" data-conversation="none" data-lang="en"><p dir="ltr" lang="tl">Both should grow together kapag inlove, ma mold kayo together. Just because nagka mali, di na nagmamahalan. Bakit? Nung nasira ba yung bombilya nyo sa bahay nyo, bumili ba kayo ng bagong bahay? Diba hindi? Inayos nyo. Atleast may learning bawat pagkakamali</p>— 陈小喜 (@pcessobordo) <a href="https://twitter.com/pcessobordo/status/985560362077466626?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">April 15, 2018</a></blockquote><div><script async="" src="https://platform.twitter.com/widgets.js" charSet="utf-8" type="text/javascript"></script></div><div><iframe allow="encrypted-media" allowtransparency="true" frameBorder="0" height="161" scrolling="no" src="https://www.facebook.com/plugins/comment_embed.php?href=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2FOfficialJoshuaGarcia%2Fposts%2F196526340840403%3Fcomment_id%3D196595247500179&amp;include_parent=false" style="border:none;overflow:hidden" width="560"></iframe><iframe allow="encrypted-media" allowtransparency="true" frameBorder="0" height="161" scrolling="no" src="https://www.facebook.com/plugins/comment_embed.php?href=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2FOfficialJoshuaGarcia%2Fposts%2F196526340840403%3Fcomment_id%3D1296713390473715&amp;include_parent=false" style="border:none;overflow:hidden" width="560"></iframe><iframe allow="encrypted-media" allowtransparency="true" frameBorder="0" height="181" scrolling="no" src="https://www.facebook.com/plugins/comment_embed.php?href=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2FOfficialJoshuaGarcia%2Fposts%2F196526340840403%3Fcomment_id%3D196641457495558&amp;include_parent=false" style="border:none;overflow:hidden" width="560"></iframe><iframe allow="encrypted-media" allowtransparency="true" frameBorder="0" height="161" scrolling="no" src="https://www.facebook.com/plugins/comment_embed.php?href=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2FOfficialJoshuaGarcia%2Fposts%2F196526340840403%3Fcomment_id%3D201138150493488&amp;include_parent=false" style="border:none;overflow:hidden" width="560"></iframe></div><p>In his &quot;Tonight with Boy Abunda&quot; interview, a tearful Garcia admitted that he had made a mistake, and that it hurt Barretto. While it caused a rift between them, Garcia said they have since reconciled and clarified they never broke up.</p><figure class="op-interactive"><iframe height="315" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/ihAPnDxrpdw?enablejsapi=1" width="560"></iframe></figure><div class="iwantbar">Watch more in <a href="~//www.iwantv.com.ph/">iWantv</a> or <a href="~//tfc.tv/">TFC.tv</a></div>

<p>The recent controversy surrounding the relationship of Joshua Garcia and Julia Barretto has triggered a debate online about fidelity and forgiveness.</p>

The recent controversy surrounding the relationship of Joshua Garcia and Julia Barretto has triggered a debate online about fidelity and forgiveness.