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Aly Alindayu in the episode of the online dating show 'Pusuan or Laruan.' Screenshot from the Marion Aunor Official channel on YouTube

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<div><span class="fr-img-caption fr-fic fr-dib" style="width:959px"><span class="fr-img-wrap"><img src="https://od2-image-api.abs-cbn.com/prod/editorImage/1741865177011PUSUAN O LARUAN.png" style="width:960px" class="fr-fic fr-dib"/><span class="fr-inner" style="text-align:left">Aly Alindayu in the episode of the online dating show &#x27;Pusuan or Laruan.&#x27; <em>Screenshot from the Marion Aunor Official channel on YouTube</em></span></span></span></div><p>Aly Alindayu, a contestant on the online dating show &quot;Pusuan Or Laruan,&quot; has broken her silence weeks after facing backlash on social media for her comment about being able to speak in English.</p><p>In a post made on Wednesday via Instagram, Alindayu said the backlash has caused her mental and emotional distress, calling it the &quot;worst experience of my life.&quot;</p><p>“I didn&#x27;t do anything wrong and yet I got hate DMs (direct messages), was made into memes, a sound bite, death threats and more. The hate wasn&#x27;t even from a few hundred, it was from tens of thousands of people. People who I don’t even know made assumptions and defined my entire character,” Alindayu wrote in the post.</p><div><br/></div><iframe class="instagram-media" id="instagram-embed-0" src="https://www.instagram.com/p/DHGJghVpqcO/embed/?cr=1&amp;v=14&amp;wp=540&amp;rd=https%3A%2F%2Fod2-workbench-web.abs-cbn.com&amp;rp=%2F#%7B%22ci%22%3A0%2C%22os%22%3A6414654%7D" allowtransparency="true" allowfullscreen="" frameBorder="0" height="0" data-instgrm-payload-id="instagram-media-payload-0" scrolling="no" style="background:white;max-width:540px;width:calc(100% - 2px);border-radius:3px;border:1px solid rgb(219, 219, 219);box-shadow:none;display:block;margin:0px;min-width:326px;padding:0px;position:absolute"></iframe><blockquote class=" instagram-media-registered" data-instgrm-permalink="https://www.instagram.com/p/DHGJghVpqcO/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" data-instgrm-version="14" id="instagram-media-payload-0" style="background:#FFF;border:0;border-radius:3px;box-shadow:0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15);margin:1px;max-width:540px;min-width:326px;padding:0;width:calc(100% - 2px)"><div style="padding:16px"><a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/DHGJghVpqcO/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" style="background:#FFFFFF;line-height:0;padding:0 0;text-align:center;text-decoration:none;width:100%" target="_blank"><div style="display:flex;flex-direction:row;align-items:center"><div style="background-color:#F4F4F4;border-radius:50%;flex-grow:0;height:40px;margin-right:14px;width:40px"><br/></div><div style="display:flex;flex-direction:column;flex-grow:1;justify-content:center"><div style="background-color:#F4F4F4;border-radius:4px;flex-grow:0;height:14px;margin-bottom:6px;width:100px"><br/></div><div style="background-color:#F4F4F4;border-radius:4px;flex-grow:0;height:14px;width:60px"><br/></div></div></div><div style="padding:19% 0"><br/></div><div style="display:block;height:50px;margin:0 auto 12px;width:50px"><br/></div><div style="padding-top:8px"><div style="color:#3897f0;line-height:18px">View this post on Instagram</div></div><div style="padding:12.5% 0"><br/></div><div style="display:flex;flex-direction:row;margin-bottom:14px;align-items:center"><div><div style="background-color:#F4F4F4;border-radius:50%;height:12.5px;width:12.5px;transform:translateX(0px) translateY(7px)"><br/></div><div style="background-color:#F4F4F4;height:12.5px;transform:rotate(-45deg) translateX(3px) translateY(1px);width:12.5px;flex-grow:0;margin-right:14px;margin-left:2px"><br/></div><div style="background-color:#F4F4F4;border-radius:50%;height:12.5px;width:12.5px;transform:translateX(9px) translateY(-18px)"><br/></div></div><div style="margin-left:8px"><div style="background-color:#F4F4F4;border-radius:50%;flex-grow:0;height:20px;width:20px"><br/></div><div style="width:0;height:0;border-top:2px solid transparent;border-left:6px solid #f4f4f4;border-bottom:2px solid transparent;transform:translateX(16px) translateY(-4px) rotate(30deg)"><br/></div></div><div style="margin-left:auto"><div style="width:0px;border-top:8px solid #F4F4F4;border-right:8px solid transparent;transform:translateY(16px)"><br/></div><div style="background-color:#F4F4F4;flex-grow:0;height:12px;width:16px;transform:translateY(-4px)"><br/></div><div style="width:0;height:0;border-top:8px solid #F4F4F4;border-left:8px solid transparent;transform:translateY(-4px) translateX(8px)"><br/></div></div></div><div style="display:flex;flex-direction:column;flex-grow:1;justify-content:center;margin-bottom:24px"><div style="background-color:#F4F4F4;border-radius:4px;flex-grow:0;height:14px;margin-bottom:6px;width:224px"><br/></div><div style="background-color:#F4F4F4;border-radius:4px;flex-grow:0;height:14px;width:144px"><br/></div></div></a><div style="color:#c9c8cd;line-height:17px;margin-bottom:0;margin-top:8px;overflow:hidden;padding:8px 0 7px;text-align:center;text-overflow:ellipsis;white-space:nowrap"><a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/DHGJghVpqcO/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" style="color:#c9c8cd;line-height:17px;text-decoration:none" target="_blank">A post shared by Aly Alindayu (@ohmygalygosh)</a></div></div></blockquote><script async="" src="//www.instagram.com/embed.js"></script><div><br/></div><p>The video of the dating show episode was uploaded back in 2024. A portion of the episode recently resurfaced, showing Alindayu saying, &quot;I’m an Englishera, halata. I can come off as strong to a lot of people that I try dating — they find me strong. And then, as in nosebleed. Like, I get it a lot, it doesn’t offend me.&quot;</p><p>In her post, Alindayu, 28, said she saw &quot;nothing wrong&quot; with her remark as she was &quot;simply sharing my experience and stating my preferences.&quot;</p><p>&quot;I may not have the typical American accent that you&#x27;re expecting but English is my first language. I spoke Taglish because it&#x27;s a Filipino show and I was adjusting. I hope you can see that I was trying,&quot; she said.</p><p>Alindayu said she was grateful to those who defended her.</p><p>She also acknowledged &quot;those who have sent me hate.&quot;</p><p>&quot;I hear you. We have our own preferences and I forgive you and wish you peace,&quot; she said.</p><p>Alindayu also clarified that she and the guy she appeared with on &quot;Pusuan Or Laruan&quot; were on good terms.</p><p>&quot;What I said to him and what you guys have seen was a preference, not a deal breaker and I was not looking down on him or anyone,&quot; she said.</p><p>In the post&#x27;s caption, Alindayu said she aspires to be an advocate against bullying following the incident.</p><p>&quot;If you guys know where I can start, I am all ears. Maybe a podcast! I want to help other people because I do not wish this at all,&quot; she wrote.</p>

<p>Aly Alindayu, a contestant on the online dating show 'Pusuan Or Laruan,' has broken her silence weeks after facing backlash on social media for her comment about being able to speak in English.</p>

Aly Alindayu, a contestant on the online dating show 'Pusuan Or Laruan,' has broken her silence weeks after facing backlash on social media for her comment about being able to speak in English.

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'Englishera girl' Aly Alindayu breaks silence on dating show remark

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Kaizen Giane Balongoy

Published Mar 13, 2025 08:15 PM PHT

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