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Esnyr opens up about family struggles and emotional gap with father

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E. Kristhoff Cagape

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Esnyr got emotional as he revealed deeply personal stories about his family’s financial struggles during an episode of Pinoy Big Brother: Celebrity Collab Edition.The content creator got candid about the real-life challenges he has faced since rising to fame during the pandemic. He shared how his online success quickly turned into a financial responsibility.&quot;Nung nag-start kasi ako sa pandemic, nagkakaroon ako sa videos ko tig ₱5,000, tig ₱10,000 tapos napapansin ko wala na talagang ulam sa ref namin and walang laman talaga ang ref namin always. [Sabi ko], &#x27;Okay ako na bahala sa grocery ngayon, ako na bahala sa kuryente, ganyan.&#x27; Sobrang little things lang hanggang sa palaki nang palaki. Hanggang sa may opportunity ako dito sa Manila. Dun pala magsisimula &#x27;yung problem ko sa family ko,&quot; he recalled.Esnyr shared a painful moment when his father was almost sent to jail because of an unpaid debt. His family turned to him for support.&quot;One day magko-call sa akin &#x27;yung parents ko at sasabihing makukulong ang papa ko. So bakit? Kasi daw may utang daw kami, tapos sakto pa &#x27;yung utang namin ganun kalaki sa makukuha ko. Eh siyempre ayaw kong makulong papa ko kaya binigay ko. Tapos nangutang ako. Dun na nag-start &#x27;yung utang chronicles ko,&quot; he relayed.  To earn back the money, Esnyr worked nonstop and accepted every brand deal he could.&quot;Siyempre since medyo malaki &#x27;yung binayaran ko para lang hindi makulong &#x27;yung father ko, like kumayod ako. Tinanggap ko lahat ng brands. Every day gagawa ako ng script, magi-edit ako, magsho-shoot ako,&quot; he shared.What hurt him the most wasn’t the pressure, but the message he once received from his father after he missed replying to one of their messages.&quot;Sobrang busy ko that time na nagme-message sila papa sa akin kasi monthly sila nagme-message sa akin na, saan na &#x27;yung pera, ganyan. Tapos di ako nakapag-reply. Dun ko unang natanggap &#x27;yung unang message ng papa ko sa akin na: &#x27;Grabe ka magpasarap diyan sa buhay mo diyan, kaya mong makita &#x27;yung parents mo na naghihirap? Pero sige lang, gusto kong malaman mo na mabubuhay kami kahit wala ka,&#x27;&quot; he said.Esnyr remarked that it was a heartbreaking moment for him as he had been doing everything he could to support them.&quot;Sobrang sakit nun kasi ginawa ko &#x27;to para sa kanila. Hindi ako humihingi ng mga bagay sa kanila. Ako &#x27;yung bigay ng bigay. Natatakot nga akong tawagin ang sarili ko na breadwinner kasi si papa sinabi niya sa akin na huwag mo naman i-take credit lahat kasi nagwo-work ka. Gets ko naman &#x27;yun kaya di ko tinatawag ang sarili ko na breadwinner. Every month nagme-message siya sa &#x27;kin na, &#x27;Hello John (Esnyr&#x27;s second name), kumusta?&#x27; Magre-reply ako tapos after nun always na nanghihingi. Never akong na-chatan na kumusta lang,&quot; he said.<div><iframe width="1265" height="480" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/E3_sLE91cDY" title="Day 24: Esnyr, ikinuwento ang relasyon nila ng kaniyang tatay | PBB Collab" frameBorder="0" allowfullscreen=""></iframe></div>Despite his efforts, Esnyr shared that he has never been emotionally close to his father.&quot;Never in my life naging close kami. Never in my life na nakapagsabi ako ng &#x27;I love you&#x27; sa kanya. Never in my life na sinabihan niya ako ng &#x27;I love you,&#x27; na &#x27;Sobrang saya ko na naging anak kita.&#x27; Wala akong narinig na ganun,&quot; he said.The content creator said one of his biggest motivations for joining Pinoy Big Brother was his desire to help his family. &quot;Kaya ayun gusto ko talaga sumali dito kasi hindi lang dream ko sa sarili ko na gusto kong maging kauna-unahang LGBT representation sa Big 4 pero talaga mostly para talaga sa pamilya ko. Gusto kong malaman nila na sobrang mahal na mahal ko sila, na sobrang mahal kita pa. I am doing everything for you. Kahit wala man itong PBB or meron, gusto ko lang na magiging okay kami ng papa ko kasi buong buhay ko &#x27;tong binibitbit,&quot; he remarked.

Esnyr got candid about the real-life challenges he has faced since rising to fame.

Esnyr got candid about the real-life challenges he has faced since rising to fame.