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'I can only endure so much for too long': Beatrice Gomez finally breaks silence on split with girlfriend

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style="display:flex;flex-direction:column;flex-grow:1;justify-content:center;margin-bottom:24px"><div style="background-color:#F4F4F4;border-radius:4px;flex-grow:0;height:14px;margin-bottom:6px;width:224px"> </div><div style="background-color:#F4F4F4;border-radius:4px;flex-grow:0;height:14px;width:144px"> </div></div><div style="color:#c9c8cd;font-family:Arial,sans-serif;font-size:14px;line-height:17px;margin-bottom:0;margin-top:8px;overflow:hidden;padding:8px 0 7px;text-align:center;text-overflow:ellipsis;white-space:nowrap"><a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/CYiHv3yFd9W/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" style="color:#c9c8cd;font-family:Arial,sans-serif;font-size:14px;font-style:normal;font-weight:normal;line-height:17px;text-decoration:none" target="_blank">A post shared by Beatrice Luigi Gomez (@beatriceluigigmz)</a></div></div></blockquote><div><script async="" src="https://www.instagram.com/embed.js" type="text/javascript"></script></div><p>Tired of the &quot;continuous harassment&quot; she and her loved ones have been receiving, reigning Miss Universe Philippines Beatrice Gomez finally opened up about her breakup with her long-time partner, DJ Kate Jagdon.</p><p>In a series of Instagram Stories posts on Wednesday, Gomez said she is breaking her silence &quot;for my own peace of mind and nothing else.&quot;</p><p>The beauty queen said she had been keeping quiet to focus on the 70th Miss Universe, where she finished in the Top 5.</p><p>&quot;Aside from the pressure of representing the country, I had to suffer being scrutinized by people who didn&#x27;t know my side of the story,&quot; she said.</p><p>&quot;It didn&#x27;t bother me that people were spreading rumors. What made me finally say enough is enough is the continuous harassment towards me and my loved ones,&quot; she added. </p><ul class="op-related-articles">	<li><a href="https://news.abs-cbn.com/life/11/23/21/miss-universe-ph-bea-gomez-girlfriend-break-up">Miss Universe PH Bea Gomez, girlfriend break up</a></li></ul><p>According to Gomez, the hate messages she received on social media about the breakup, particularly from Jagdon&#x27;s followers, friends, and family, took a toll on her mental health. </p><p>&quot;I can only endure so much for too long,&quot; she admitted. &quot;It is hard to advocate for mental health when I myself struggled through pressure, anxiety, and even depression.&quot;</p><p>Addressing those who called her out for allegedly using being an LGBT member for clout, Gomez said: &quot;Clout chasing is staying in a toxic relationship just to keep you people entertained.&quot;</p><div class="embed-wrap"><figure data-feedback="fb:likes,fb:comments"><img alt="beatriceluigigmz IG" src="https://sa.kapamilya.com/absnews/abscbnnews/media/2022/life/02/16/20220216-beatrice-gomez-ig-2.jpg"/><figcaption><em>Screenshot from @beatriceluigigmz on Instagram Stories</em></figcaption></figure></div><div><strong>HER SIDE OF THE STORY</strong></div><p>According to Gomez, the breakup happened after she learned that Jagdon has not been loyal to her.</p><p>&quot;When I was on my way to the MUPH competition, after a series of confrontations I learned that she had already been entertaining a person named &#x27;Adam&#x27; for over a year during our relationship, she&#x27;s made out with someone, made a move on other girls, and have been going out more often than usual that there were even times she wouldn&#x27;t come home for days,&quot; she said. </p><p>&quot;I wouldn&#x27;t know where she was or who she was with. I didn&#x27;t recognize her anymore and things began to change,&quot; she added. &quot;People warned me about what she&#x27;s been doing and yet I continued to defend her, and even tried my best to make it work.&quot;</p><p>And while she also acknowledged her mistakes in the relationship, Gomez stressed that Jagdon became the &quot;victim&quot; in the breakup &quot;because she chose to.&quot;</p><p>&quot;She didn&#x27;t have to explain herself because I was already being antagonized and everyone&#x27;s sympathy was with her,&quot; she said.</p><p>In the end, Gomez thanked all those who were &quot;constantly present&quot; to support her, unlike those who only showed up after her Top 5 finish in Miss Universe.</p><p>And despite the split, the beauty queen hopes for the best for Jagdon. &quot;I did love her. I don&#x27;t regret anything in the six years that we&#x27;ve been together. I loved her until the last day I was with her,&quot; she said.</p><p>&quot;We both deserve to be happy... Genuinely happy,&quot; she ended.</p><div class="embed-wrap"><figure data-feedback="fb:likes,fb:comments"><img alt="beatriceluigigmz IG" src="https://sa.kapamilya.com/absnews/abscbnnews/media/2022/life/02/16/20220216-beatrice-gomez-ig-3.jpg"/><figcaption><em>Screenshot from @beatriceluigigmz on Instagram Stories</em></figcaption></figure></div><div class="embed-wrap"><figure data-feedback="fb:likes,fb:comments"><img alt="beatriceluigigmz IG" src="https://sa.kapamilya.com/absnews/abscbnnews/media/2022/life/02/16/20220216-beatrice-gomez-ig-4.jpg"/><figcaption><em>Screenshot from @beatriceluigigmz on Instagram Stories</em></figcaption></figure></div><p>Gomez made the statement about her breakup with Jagdon a day after sharing a photo of her with her <a href="https://news.abs-cbn.com/life/02/15/22/bea-gomez-shares-photo-with-valentine-date">Valentine date</a>. </p><p>While she did not name who her date was, the reigning Miss Universe Philippines tagged musician John Odin in a different picture of them from the same day on Instagram Stories.</p><div><strong>Related video:</strong></div><figure class="op-interactive"><iframe allow="autoplay; fullscreen" frameBorder="0" height="100%" id="ivsplayer01" scrolling="no" src="https://player.ivideosmart.com/ivsplayer/v4/dist/html/iframe-src.html?iframeid=ivsplayer01&amp;key=e8c22c015ca9eafa76f1e3edfa03c603&amp;spid=3001339&amp;vid=1862187" width="100%"></iframe></figure><div class="iwantbar">Watch more in <a href="//www.iwantv.com.ph/">iWantv</a> or <a href="//tfc.tv/">TFC.tv</a></div>

'What made me finally say enough is enough is the continuous harassment towards me and my loved ones.' 