What will happen with weddings?

Abby Ellin, The New York Times

<div class="embed-wrap"><figure data-feedback="fb:likes,fb:comments"><img src="https://sa.kapamilya.com/absnews/abscbnnews/media/2020/life/06/21/20200620-covid19-quarantine-wedding-4398-md-2-s.jpg?ext=.jpg"/><figcaption>Newlywed King Fronda and Denise Macalalad-Fronda exchange vows in an intimate wedding Quezon City, with the bride&#x27;s family and the groom&#x27;s host family in physical attendance while other family members, relatives, and friends join via video chat, June 20, 2020. The general community quarantine of Metro Manila limits the number of participants in religious gatherings.<em> Mark Demayo, ABS-CBN News</em></figcaption></figure></div><p>The coronavirus or not, one thing is certain: People will find each other, they will fall in love, and, somehow, they will say their vows.</p><p>“Love is going to survive this,” said Kate Edmonds, a wedding and event planner in New York. “I don’t think it’s emotionally sound to keep postponing weddings. There needs to be something to celebrate.”</p><p>And celebrate they will. It just may take some finessing and extra planning.</p><p>According to a May survey by The Knot, 66 percent of 6,253 respondents across 8 countries were rescheduling to a later date. Of these, 40 percent were postponing to later in 2020, 52 percent to 2021 and 8 percent were not sure of their new date. (The study was conducted among users of the Knot’s brands, including WeddingWire, Bodas and Hitched.)</p><p>But how people marry will evolve, and many of the adjustments that we have seen over the last few months are here to stay. Kristen Maxwell, The Knot’s editor-in-chief, expects 2021 to have a greater focus on health and safety. Masks and gloves will become de rigueur, as will hand-sanitizing stations (and sanitizers as party favors), numerous dance areas and bars, several smaller celebrations, and the rise of the “minimony,” or microceremony. There will be more room for standing, socially distanced seating and a “gesture” line rather than a receiving line, where guests wave or nod instead of hug or kiss.</p><p>“With a longing to connect more with friends and family following months of separation, we anticipate couples looking for more ways to involve their closest friends and family members into their weddings,” Maxwell said. “Whether inviting guests to join in on the ceremony vows or sharing favorite memories of each guest in a unique seating arrangement display, we won’t be surprised to see guest interaction and the honoring of loved ones increase in the near future at weddings.”</p><p>There probably will not be many celebrations rivaling the Metropolitan Museum Costume Gala for the foreseeable future. No dance floors packed with guests jamming to “Rock Lobster.” No three-day destination weddings with endless booze and a luau. Instead, social distancing will be the 2 most popular words (besides “I do.”)</p><p>What else can you expect from wedding celebrations next year? Here are some expert predictions.</p><div><strong>VIRTUAL &#x27;I DO&#x27; </strong></div><p>Livestreaming is here to stay, whether it is via Zoom, Facebook Live or FaceTime. And why not? It is cheaper and more accessible to a worldwide audience.</p><p>Depending on where you live, the ceremony itself might be done virtually, which is legal in certain states. In New York, for example, some officiants can legally perform a binding ceremony via video. (Hawaii, on the other hand, does not recognize marriages conducted by video between a couple and an officiant.) But couples might choose to go with a video ceremony that is not legally binding and then do the official service at a later date.</p><p>“This is the way to go for couples who chose a specific date that had a lot of significance to them — an anniversary, for example — or those who may not have been planning something elaborate to start with and didn’t feel compelled to postpone their nuptials in favor of an in-person wedding,” said Lindsay Landman, a wedding planner in New York.</p><p>Keep in mind, these will not be homemade videos. Rather, videographers and photographers will expand their repertoire to include livestreaming services.</p><p>“While some couples have tried to FaceTime or use their mobile phone apps, these are not 100% reliable,” said Tori Rogers, owner of Hawaii Weddings by Tori Rogers. “In addition, they tend to pick up the ambient sound and not the officiant or couple speaking. When professionally done, the couple and the officiant are miced up so that they can be heard over the waves, wind, birds and other people.”</p><p>Amy Shey Jacobs, founder and creative director of Chandelier Events in New York, recently started a new division of her company called Don’t Let the Day Go By, which merges virtual events with real-life experiences. “You can now drop ship beautiful flowers from the nation’s best florists right to your living room, have virtual photo booths, send wedding cake to all of your guests, and dance your first dance with live musicians,” she said. “It is certainly not one that will replace the dream weddings we are planning for our couples. But for the couple who wants to say, “I do” now and celebrate later — this can be a truly special way to do it.” </p><ul class="op-related-articles">	<li><a href="https://news.abs-cbn.com/life/04/23/20/love-in-the-time-of-quarantine-pinoy-couple-holds-zoom-wedding-from-home">Love in the time of quarantine: Pinoy couple holds Zoom wedding from home</a></li>	<li><a href="https://news.abs-cbn.com/life/04/27/20/how-to-livestream-your-wedding">How to livestream your wedding</a><br/>	 <br/>	<strong>SMALL IS THE NEW BIG </strong></li></ul><p>Intimate and cozy is how wedding experts are describing upcoming events. This, too, has an upside. With a smaller event, couples will not feel bad about splurging on a more expensive meal, top-shelf liquor or entertainment.</p><p>The guest list will also be meticulously curated. “Quarantine made a lot of people realize how much they want to be around certain people in their lives and how much they appreciate time away from home,” Rogers said. “I see an increase in destination weddings and many activities planned together. I still think the details are going to matter to a lot of people. It may not be a big dance party, but there will be a reception and something happening.”</p><div><strong>BYE BYE BUFFETS</strong> </div><p>Edmonds is bidding farewell to the buffet dinner and focusing on plated meals. She also expects to eliminate hors d’oeuvres, or at least change the kinds she serves. “Maybe individual plates with a few hors d’oeuvres, maybe a couple of bite-size hors d’oeuvres mixed with prosciutto, tomatoes and basil and a cocktail fork so you’re not dipping,” she said. She’s also adding hand-sanitizing stations with a timed 20-second jingle.</p><ul class="op-related-articles">	<li><a href="https://news.abs-cbn.com/life/05/18/20/takeout-food-essential-guests-only-bare-bones-wedding-goes-on-under-new-normal">Takeout food, essential guests only: Bare-bones wedding goes on under &#x27;new normal&#x27;</a></li>	<li><a href="https://news.abs-cbn.com/life/04/14/20/intimate-celebration-no-buffet-how-covid-19-could-transform-ph-wedding-industry">Intimate celebration, no buffet: How COVID-19 could transform PH wedding industry</a></li></ul><div><strong>MULTIPLE CELEBRATIONS </strong></div><p>Taking a cue from Justin and Hailey Bieber, Joe Jonas and Sophie Turner, and Nick Jonas and Priyanka Chopra, many couples will have multipart or sequel weddings, where they make appearances at several smaller events, either “in different hometowns or even elaborate dinner parties with different sets of friends and family,” said Sara Fried, owner of Fête Nashville Luxury Weddings.</p><p>Another iteration is the so-called shift wedding, in which guests show up at staggered times. This gives the venue time to sanitize the space between groups and also lets the couple spend more time with guests.</p><div><strong>BIG BASHES WILL BE BACK </strong></div><div class="embed-wrap"><figure data-feedback="fb:likes,fb:comments"><img src="http://sa.kapamilya.com/absnews/abscbnnews/media/2020/tnyt/06/26/weddings-outlook-1.jpg"/><figcaption>Less is more for 2021 weddings. Extravagant nuptials are taking a back seat to intimate, personalized celebrations. <em>Ceci Bowman, The New York Times</em></figcaption></figure></div><p>The big, boozy, party-’til-the-cows-come-home will return — eventually. And when it does, it will be grander than ever.</p><p>“Eventually we will get back to business when crowds of up to 100 are allowed, but we will still have to be extremely inventive about seating, crowd control, food and beverage service and which staff is absolutely essential to the event,” Fried said.</p><p>Brown sees a return to big celebrations after the pandemic has ended. “While some couples may eschew conspicuous celebration out of respect for the suffering caused by the pandemic, others may go bigger than before,” he said. “As we saw after the 1918 Spanish flu pandemic, there may be another Roaring ’20s era. Either way, weddings will have a strong focus on family and valued friendships; the lockdown has truly elevated the meaning of connections to those we love most.”</p><p>But the party may be separate from the actual wedding.</p><p>“There will absolutely still be a big boozy party, but it will be separate from the wedding,” said Caroline Creidenburg, chief executive of Wedfuly, a Denver-based online wedding planning company. “It’ll remove the wedding pressure from the fun party. Maybe it’ll be an anniversary party when the time is right or maybe it’ll be a post-wedding party. Whatever it is, it will be a fun dance-filled evening with the pressure of getting married removed from it.”</p><ul class="op-related-articles">	<li><a href="https://news.abs-cbn.com/news/03/13/20/ph-government-asks-couples-to-delay-weddings-due-to-covid-19">PH government asks couples to delay weddings due to COVID-19</a></li></ul><div><br/><strong>c.2020 The New York Times Company</strong></div><div><br/> </div>

<p>The coronavirus or not, one thing is certain: People will find each other, they will fall in love, and, somehow, they will say their vows. And celebrate they will. It just may take some finessing and extra planning. </p>

The coronavirus or not, one thing is certain: People will find each other, they will fall in love, and, somehow, they will say their vows. And celebrate they will. It just may take some finessing and extra planning.

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What will happen with weddings?

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Abby Ellin,

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Published Jun 26, 2020 03:16 PM PHT

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