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Deutsche Welle

<div><span class="fr-img-caption fr-fic fr-dib" style="width:960px;display:block" width="960"><span class="fr-img-wrap"><img src="https://od2-image-api.abs-cbn.com/prod/editorImage/1767069946344Screenshot 2025-12-30 at 12.45.29 PM.png" style="width:960px" class="fr-fic fr-dib" width="960"/><span class="fr-inner" style="text-align:left">Tim Mossholder, Unsplash </span></span></span></div><p>There is certainly no lack of good ideas for 2026: eating healthier, drinking less alcohol, meditating more often, and so on and so forth. Wait a minute! Aren&#x27;t the resolutions you had this past year, and the year before that (and before that, and before that) amazingly similar to the new ones? Indeed! Perhaps they&#x27;re even exactly the same.</p><p>No surprise there. The enthusiasm with which we start each new year is a bit like the fireworks on New Year&#x27;s Eve: After a loud bang and bright flash, everything soon fizzles out. Eventually, the inner culprit takes control again. And so it goes year after year. But it doesn&#x27;t have to be that way. If you take a few things to heart, you may very well stick to your 2026 resolutions.</p><div><strong>1. One after another</strong></div><p>&quot;The biggest mistake you can make is to do too many things at once,&quot; psychologist Mario Schuster said.</p><p>If you not only want to stop smoking, but also ban sweets from your diet and finally start jogging, you&#x27;re bound to overtax yourself.</p><p>&quot;To break old habits, we need willpower,&quot; Schuster said. But nobody has that in abundance. Pursuing several goals at the same time also means that our willpower has to be multitrack — and thus is is quickly used up. In the end, we don&#x27;t get anywhere.</p><p>&quot;There&#x27;s nothing to be said against changing several habits,&quot; Schuster said. &quot;The important thing is to take things one step at a time.&quot;</p><div><strong>2. It must be fun</strong></div><p>So now we have to pick a resolution to focus on. But which? They&#x27;re all reasonable and sensible, after all. The answer sounds simple: &quot;It must be fun. We need a positive approach to the change we want to make,&quot; Schuster said.</p><p>&quot;I have to stop smoking&quot; and &quot;I want to stop smoking&quot; may differ only marginally in terms of language. From a psychological point of view, however, it is crucial for the long-term success of a project whether we have to, or want to, do something.</p><div><strong>3. Remain realistic</strong></div><p>People who spent most of their free time lying on the couch in 2025 and have now made a plan to go jogging for an hour four times a week in 2026 are setting the bar extremely high. Most likely too high.</p><p>A proven couch potato should be satisfied if they manage to get up twice a week. Even if it&#x27;s only for half an hour.</p><p>&quot;Regularity is more important than duration and intensity,&quot; Schuster said.</p><p>After all, the point is to establish sport as a new habit. Those who don&#x27;t immediately overtax themselves to the point of exhaustion also have a better chance of retaining the fun (see point 2), and thus also their good intentions.</p><div><strong>4. Be accountable</strong></div><p>The resolution has been selected and has taken shape.</p><p>&quot;Now it may be helpful to tell a few people about it,&quot; says the psychologist.</p><p>That strengthens the commitment and provides accountability. A promise that we make alone in a quiet room is broken more quickly than one we make out loud.</p><div><strong>5. Do not despair</strong></div><p>Even if we manage to stick to our best intentions entering 2026, our motivation may eventually suffer — or we may experience cravings for, say, a cigarette. On top of that, the gravitational force of the couch has never been greater! So we give in, lie down and have a smoke. What now?</p><p>&quot;Under no circumstances should you condemn yourself for it,&quot; Schuster said. </p><p>That could derail the entire project. Setbacks are always possible and perhaps even probable. And they are OK!</p><p>The focus should be on successes — no matter how small they may seem. This strengthens our self-efficacy, explains Schuster. </p><p>&quot;Self-efficacy means a person&#x27;s conviction to be able to create something through his or her own efforts.&quot; </p><p>Those who maintain this belief in themselves do not throw in the towel as quickly.</p><div><strong>6. Better no resolution at all than a bad resolution</strong></div><p>Even good resolutions can be bad — when they&#x27;re difficult to integrate into our lives, or when the driving force is an &quot;I must&quot; and not an &quot;I want.&quot;</p><p>When we fail spectacularly, and self-condemnation has completely killed our self-efficacy, we must realize that even the best resolution is not automatically good. In some cases, we are better off starting the year without any resolutions. </p><div><em>This article has been updated for New Year&#x27;s Eve 2025 and translated from German. </em></div>

<p>Quit smoking, exercise more, eat healthier: Every January 1, we plan to do great things over the next year — only to fail most of the time. Here's how to make sure your New Year's resolutions work out.</p>
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Quit smoking, exercise more, eat healthier: Every January 1, we plan to do great things over the next year — only to fail most of the time. Here's how to make sure your New Year's resolutions work out.

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New Year's Eve: How to make resolutions for 2026

Deutsche Welle

Published Dec 30, 2025 12:47 PM PHT

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