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WHO SAID THIS: How Enchong Dee stood up for the woman he loves in 'Four Sisters and a Wedding'

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<div><img src="https://od2-image-api.abs-cbn.com/prod/editorImage/1783997191110WST26-ArticleImg_46-EnchongDee.png" style="width:500px" class="fr-fic fr-dib"/></div><div>&quot;I&#x27;m still offended na tinawag mo si Princess na chararat!&quot; </div>The line was spoken by CJ (Enchong Dee), in the 2013 Star Cinema family drama film Four Sisters and a Wedding, directed by Cathy Garcia-Sampana. The film follows the Salazar siblings Teddie (Toni Gonzaga), Bobbie (Bea Alonzo), Alex (Angel Locsin), Gabbie (Shaina Magdayao), and their youngest brother CJ, as they reunite after learning that he is getting married. The announcement surprises the entire family because CJ has decided to marry Princess Bayag (Angeline Quinto), after knowing her for only four months. Concerned that their younger brother is rushing into one of the biggest decisions of his life, Gabbie convinces her sisters to come home at the request of their mother Grace (Coney Reyes).  <div><a href="https://www.abs-cbn.com/entertainment/showbiz/celebrities/2026/7/8/who-said-this-how-vice-ganda-s-line-in-girl-boy-bakla-tomboy-became-a-comedy-catchphrase-0019">READ: WHO SAID THIS: How Vice Ganda&#x27;s line in &#x27;Girl, Boy, Bakla, Tomboy&#x27; became a comedy catchphrase</a></div>Each sibling, however, returns carrying personal struggles of their own. Teddie, once a teacher in Spain, has secretly lost her job because of the recession and now works as a waitress and housemaid while pretending everything is going well overseas. Unable to afford airfare home, she convinces her close friend Frodo (Janus Del Prado), to accompany her to Manila by pretending to be her boyfriend. Bobbie has built a successful corporate career in New York and is in a relationship with her boyfriend Tristan (Sam Milby). Despite appearing accomplished, she quietly struggles with commitment as Tristan wants to marry her while his daughter, Trixie, does not get along well with her.  Alex, meanwhile, works as an assistant film director but finds herself trapped in an unhealthy relationship with Chad (Bernard Palanca), who also happens to be Bobbie&#x27;s former boyfriend. Gabbie has remained in the Philippines, dedicating herself to teaching while helping take care of their mother. Although the reunion begins warmly, tension quickly fills the household as the sisters openly question why CJ wants to marry someone he barely knows. Feeling that nobody trusts his judgment, CJ becomes hurt by their constant doubts. Although his sisters eventually apologize, he asks them to at least respect Princess and behave when they finally meet her and her parents, Jeanette (Carmi Martin) and Honey Boy (Boboy Garrovillo). <div><a href="https://www.abs-cbn.com/entertainment/showbiz/celebrities/2026/6/30/who-said-this-joshua-garcia-and-the-pain-of-letting-go-in-un-happy-for-you-1449">READ: WHO SAID THIS: Joshua Garcia and the pain of letting go in ‘Un/Happy For You’</a></div>Instead, the first meeting only deepens the divide between the two families because during dinner, Princess&#x27;s parents asked CJ to sign a prenuptial agreement before the wedding. The request immediately alarms the sisters, who interpret it as a sign that the Bayags are arrogant and do not trust their brother. Determined to stop the wedding before it is too late, they begin investigating Princess and her family. Bobbie also questions whether CJ is marrying simply because he is desperate to settle down, while Teddie even asks their housekeeper, Toti Marie, to introduce CJ to other women in hopes of changing his mind. The plan, however, goes nowhere. Still unconvinced, Teddie and Frodo later visit the Bayags&#x27; spa after becoming suspicious of its provocative slogan promising customers a &quot;happy ending&quot;.  Believing the establishment secretly offers illegal services, Teddie convinces Frodo to try one of the massages. When Frodo loudly reacts during the session, Teddie immediately assumes her suspicions are correct and calls the police. The misunderstanding ends in embarrassment after everyone discovers that the spa&#x27;s &quot;happy ending&quot; merely refers to customers leaving relaxed and happy after their massage. Humiliated by the incident, Princess&#x27;s mother threatens to investigate the Salazar family as well. The incident becomes the final straw for CJ. Frustrated that his sisters continue searching for reasons to destroy his relationship, he confronts them for repeatedly disrespecting Princess and her family. CJ tells them that instead of trying to understand the woman he loves, they have done nothing but judge and criticize her from the very beginning. His sisters, however, defend themselves by insisting that the Bayags have also been condescending toward the Salazars. Alex argues that asking CJ to sign a prenuptial agreement and constantly flaunting their wealth only proved how arrogant Princess&#x27;s family truly is. Unable to believe what he was hearing, CJ points out that his sisters have not exactly been kind either. He reminds them that they had mocked Princess long before truly getting to know her. And that is when he delivers one of the film&#x27;s most unforgettable lines, saying: &quot;I&#x27;m still offended na tinawag mo si Princess na chararat!&quot; Although the line is often remembered for its humor, it carried far more emotional weight within the story. <div><iframe width="795" height="447" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/zVt3YAmI8Ws" title="Bistado na sina Bobbie, Teddie, Alex, at Gabbie! | &#x27;Four Sisters and a Wedding&#x27; | Movie Clip (2/5)" frameBorder="0" allowfullscreen=""></iframe></div>For CJ, it was never simply about one insulting word, but also represented every judgment his sisters had made about Princess before giving her a fair chance. The line became memorable because it perfectly captured CJ&#x27;s frustration and that he was not merely defending his fiancée&#x27;s appearance, but he was asking his family to respect the woman he loved despite their differences in personality, background, and social status. <div><a href="https://www.abs-cbn.com/entertainment/showbiz/celebrities/2026/5/15/vincent-co-spotted-in-ph-on-rumored-wedding-day-in-spain-with-bea-alonzo-1702">READ: Vincent Co spotted in PH on rumored wedding day in Spain with Bea Alonzo</a></div>Many viewers connected with the scene because it reflected a familiar family conflict. Whether in relationships or marriages, couples often find themselves caught between choosing the person they love and seeking acceptance from their families. CJ&#x27;s confrontation became his way of telling his sisters that loving him also meant respecting the woman he had chosen to spend his life with. Despite being the youngest among the siblings, CJ also earned his place as one of the film&#x27;s most memorable characters. While often remembered for his cheerful and easygoing nature, the movie showed his growth into someone willing to stand up for the woman he loves, even if it meant confronting his own family.  Enchong&#x27;s restrained but emotional performance allowed audiences to feel both CJ&#x27;s anger and his disappointment, making the confrontation one of the film&#x27;s most memorable scenes. Soon after, the siblings confront one another and let out all their secrets, which eventually led to each other&#x27;s forgiveness.  <div><iframe width="795" height="447" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/_szq4SBIqJQ" title="Teddie: I&#x27;m sorry Maaaaaaaaaaa | &#x27;Four Sisters and A Wedding&#x27; | Movie Clip (1/5)" frameBorder="0" allowfullscreen=""></iframe></div>Not long after, CJ delivers heartbreaking news that Princess&#x27;s grandfather passed away. The tragedy finally softens both families, allowing them to apologize to one another and put aside the misunderstandings that had divided them. Because of an old family superstition, CJ and Princess are forced to postpone their wedding. Rather than letting all the preparations go to waste, Bobbie and Tristan decide to get married instead.  More than a decade since its release, Four Sisters and a Wedding remains one of Star Cinema&#x27;s defining family films. Its story continues to resonate because it reflects the realities of many Filipino households where siblings argue, parents make mistakes, misunderstandings run deep, yet love ultimately prevails. The film has become a staple for many Filipino families, often finding new audiences through television reruns and streaming platforms. Its memorable scenes continue to circulate on social media, while its dialogues have become part of everyday conversations, reaction memes, and online content. From Bobbie&#x27;s emotional confrontation with Grace to Teddie&#x27;s heartbreaking confession and Alex&#x27;s fiery one-liners, the film has produced some of the most recognizable moments in Philippine cinema. Even the characters themselves have taken on a life beyond the movie. Each sibling represents a different struggle, whether it is living up to expectations, sacrificing for family, searching for validation, or fighting for acceptance, making them relatable to audiences across generations. The film&#x27;s enduring popularity eventually led to the release of its prequel, Four Sisters Before the Wedding, directed by Mae Cruz-Alviar. Set a decade before the events of the original film, it explored the siblings&#x27; younger years and the experiences that shaped the relationships audiences had already come to love. More than a decade later, Four Sisters and a Wedding continues to be regarded as one of the most beloved Filipino family dramas ever made. Its timeless themes, relatable characters, and unforgettable lines have allowed the film to transcend generations, proving that stories about family, forgiveness, and unconditional love never lose their relevance. And among its many iconic moments remains CJ&#x27;s honest defense of Princess, a moment that continues to remind audiences that sometimes the greatest way to love someone is to stand by them when no one else will. Watch Four Sisters and a Wedding on ABS-CBN Star Cinema&#x27;s official YouTube channel.

CJ, portrayed by Enchong Dee, defends his fiancé' and asks his family to respect the woman he loves despite their differences in personality, background, and social status in the 2013 film 'Four Sisters and a Wedding.'

CJ, portrayed by Enchong Dee, defends his fiancé' and asks his family to respect the woman he loves despite their differences in personality, background, and social status in the 2013 film 'Four Sisters and a Wedding.'