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Jelai Andres tells Jon Gutierrez's new partner to protect him: 'Para hindi na maka-perwisyo ng iba'

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Alyana De Guzman

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<p>Jelai Andres had a candid message for the new partner of her ex-husband, rapper Jon Gutierrez, as she looked back on the painful journey that led to the annulment of their marriage.  </p><p>During her guest appearance on <em>Fast Talk with Boy Abunda</em> on July 20, Jelai recalled the five-year annulment process that officially ended her marriage. Asked by host Boy Abunda if she still had a message for Jon, the content creator said she continues to wish him well despite everything that happened between them. </p><p>&quot;Wish kong mas better ka na ngayong kaysa sa dati. At sana wag mong kalimutan, kasi dati mukhang nakalimutan mo, &#x27;yung tinuturo ko na lagi kang magdadasal. Pinakilala ko sa&#x27;yo &#x27;yung Diyos, sana mapagpatuloy mo &#x27;yun. Wini-wish ko &#x27;yung peace mo pa rin, at sana mayroon ka rin noon katulad ko,&quot; she said. </p><p>&quot;Gusto ko pa rin na maging successful siya sa buhay,&quot; she added. </p><div><br/><a href="https://www.abs-cbn.com/entertainment/showbiz/celebrities/2026/7/4/jelai-andres-emotional-after-annulment-of-marriage-with-jon-gutierrez-naka-survive-ako-2113" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong>READ: Jelai Andres emotional after annulment of marriage with Jon Gutierrez: ‘Naka-survive ako’</strong></a></div><div><br/></div><p>Boy then mentioned that, according to his sources, Jon is now in a new relationship. While Jelai neither confirmed nor denied the matter, she had a straightforward message for the woman. </p><p>&quot;Para sa babaeng kasama ng ex ko, sana ingatan mo siya at pangalagaan mo siya. Protektahan mo siya para hindi na maka-perwisyo ng iba, sa&#x27;yo na lang. Baka may mangyari pa katulad sa akin, i-keep mo na lang siya,&quot; she said, drawing laughter from the studio. </p><p>&quot;Kaniya na [siya] Tito Boy. Baka makapahamak pa ng iba katulad ng nangyari sa akin. Keep na lang [at] protektahan na lang niya,&quot; she reiterated. </p><div><br/></div><div><iframe class="instagram-media instagram-media-rendered" id="instagram-embed-5" src="https://www.instagram.com/p/DasIHE-ktSO/embed/?cr=1&amp;v=14&amp;wp=439&amp;rd=https%3A%2F%2Fod2-workbench-web.abs-cbn.com&amp;rp=%2F#%7B%22ci%22%3A5%2C%22os%22%3A14038703.199999988%7D" allowtransparency="true" allowfullscreen="" frameBorder="0" height="831" data-instgrm-payload-id="instagram-media-payload-5" scrolling="no" style="background:white;max-width:540px;width:calc(100% - 2px);border-radius:3px;border:1px solid rgb(219, 219, 219);box-shadow:none;display:block;margin:0px 0px 12px;min-width:326px;padding:0px"></iframe></div><div><br/></div><p>Beyond the lighthearted moment, Jelai turned emotional as she reflected on the difficult journey that led to the end of their marriage. </p><p>“Parang second life ko na &#x27;to, Tito Boy, eh. Kasi siyempre, napagdaanan ko po &#x27;yung depression, &#x27;yung anxiety, &#x27;yung wini-wish ko kapag nakakakita ako, Tito Boy, gano&#x27;n kalala, kapag nakakakita ako ng bata na babae, iniisip ko na sana hindi niya maranasan &#x27;yung naranasan ko kasi sobrang hirap, baka hindi niya kayanin, Tito Boy. Alam mo &#x27;yung parang buhay ka pero namatay ka nang ilang ulit? Ganoon po kahirap. Kapa pure na pure ka tapos &#x27;yung bumabalik sa&#x27;yo is hindi mo deserve,&quot; she shared. </p><p>The content creator also admitted that processing the annulment was emotionally, mentally, and financially exhausting. Aside from facing uncertainty over whether it would be granted, she also had to spend a significant amount throughout the legal process. </p><p>&quot;All in all po pag pinagsama-sama is five years po. Pero &#x27;yung three years po doon inilipat ko po sa probinsya. &#x27;Yung two years po, dito sa QC (Quezon City) parang nasayang siya,&quot; she said. </p><p>&quot;Hindi ko na maalala kung magkano. May milyon din po,&quot; she added when asked about the expenses. </p><div><br/></div><iframe class="instagram-media instagram-media-rendered" id="instagram-embed-7" src="https://www.instagram.com/p/DaeVBabEn6r/embed/?cr=1&amp;v=14&amp;wp=439&amp;rd=https%3A%2F%2Fod2-workbench-web.abs-cbn.com&amp;rp=%2F#%7B%22ci%22%3A7%2C%22os%22%3A14098854.5%7D" allowtransparency="true" allowfullscreen="" frameBorder="0" height="856" data-instgrm-payload-id="instagram-media-payload-7" scrolling="no" style="background:white;max-width:540px;width:calc(100% - 2px);border-radius:3px;border:1px solid rgb(219, 219, 219);box-shadow:none;display:block;margin:0px 0px 12px;min-width:326px;padding:0px"></iframe><script async="" src="//www.instagram.com/embed.js"></script><div><br/></div><p>Despite occasionally seeing Jon while the case was ongoing, Jelai said they only exchanged civil greetings. </p><p>&quot;Hindi kami magkaaway, kasi hindi na kami nag-aaway. Pero hindi rin kami bati...Pero ako po ay hindi na galit.&quot; </p><p>The actress also confirmed that repeated infidelity became a major factor in her decision to seek an annulment. </p><p>&quot;Malaki, Tito Boy, napalaki. Maraming beses, paulit-ulit,&quot; she said. </p><p>Although she chose to forgive Jon several times because she believed there was still goodness in him, she eventually realized that continuing the marriage was no longer healthy for her. </p><p>Jelai said that the emotional burden eventually took a serious toll on her mental health, causing anxiety and depression. She recalled losing the motivation to eat, sleep, bathe, or even take care of herself, adding that her parents were deeply affected after seeing how much weight she had lost. </p><p>&quot;Gusto kong mabuhay, Tito Boy, pero para kang mamamatay. Tsaka ang dami kong galit. Naging bitter, nagalit, gusto mong gumanti, sakit na sakit ka, so sabi ko &#x27;Hindi ako &#x27;to. Aalisin ko &#x27;yung sarili ko dito. Naaawa ako sa sarili ko&#x27;. Kaya tama na. Aalis na ako,&quot; she maintained.  </p><p>She shared that even when Jon reached out to her in the past, she had already made up her mind not to return to the relationship. Over time, acceptance replaced anger, allowing her to finally move forward. </p><p>Earlier this month, on July 4, Jelai announced through an emotional vlog that her marriage to Jon had officially been annulled. In the video, she documented the moment she shared the news with her closest friends, who celebrated with her after years of waiting for what she described as a new beginning.</p>

<p>Jelai Andres tells the new partner of her ex-husband, Jon Gutierrez, to protect him so he cannot hurt anyone else. </p>

Jelai Andres tells the new partner of her ex-husband, Jon Gutierrez, to protect him so he cannot hurt anyone else.